We 'help until it hurts', and we can't stop. People who are codependent can't help feeling this way, to a fault. This does not demonize consideration or empathy.A great book, it really helped me: Codependent No More.Anyone who admonishes you for not believing in their God is acting inappropriately, really. I replace it with 'Nature' or 'The Universe'. As for God: All that's required is just a 'higher power'.So, either type of Jameson (Jenna or liquor) listed elsewhere in this comment section may help cover up those feelings, but only for a bit.Most people deal with their codependency with a particular drug of choice, whether it's liquor, wine, beer, porn, coke, pot, food, or exercise.I have felt more caring and compassion at CoDA meetings than I ever have with most people.If some most of them apply to you, do some research on your own, whether that's a coda meeting, buying a book, or just reading some more literature.
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For those of you who are thinking that these excerpts apply to you, click on the link and check the full list.I think 'The more I suffer, the more it shows I really care'.I am embarrassed to receive recognition, praise, or gifts.I constantly seek recognition that I think I deserve, but at the same time:.I value others’ approval of my thinking, feelings, and behavior over my own.I believe most people are incapable of taking care of themselves.I can defiantly take care of myself without any help from others, but.I become resentful when others decline my help or reject my advice.I freely offer advice and direction to others without being asked.I am hypervigilant regarding the feelings of others and take on those feelings.I put aside my own interests too much in order to do what others want.I compromise my own values and integrity too much, to avoid rejection or anger.
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